It is a common misconception that a shy person has low self-esteem. 

 This is not necessarily the case.   Just as is nothing wrong with being outgoing and chatty, there is nothing wrong with being quiet and shy.   In fact, there are a number of benefits to being shy or an introvert.  Firstly, those of us that are more quiet tend to be very good listeners.  This is a very positive trait and one that is necessary to be successful in many occupations.  Secondly, shy people are more observant to what is happening around them. In business being very perceptive can be an advantage. 

The trick is that it is important to not let shyness get in the way of achieving your goals.  Don’t let it stop you being the success you want.  If you are aiming to be the next Bill Gates (who himself has been reported to be shy) then let your shyness and quite nature be your advantage, not your disadvantage.  Learning to be an extrovert when it is needed is the key.

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2 Responses to “Why being shy isn’t a character flaw.”

1. Maggie Says:
   June 18th, 2007 at 5:40 am

   Nice post.

2. dee Says:
   June 19th, 2007 at 4:04 am

   Thanks Maggie.

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