Don’t Be Shy

Ever notice how wearing different clothes can change your mood or attitude?  Well, you can use this to your advantage when you need a confidence boost.   I’m a strong believer that everyone (especially shy people) should own at least one amazing outfit, that you not only look great in, but you feel great in.   

Finding clothes that make you feel great is, of course, dependant on individual taste and style.   But from personal experience I can safety say that you will know them when you try them on.  Of course clothes alone won’t help you overcome your shyness, but they can help a little.  And sometimes a little is all you need to get going.

In addition to the clothes in general the colour of those clothes (or accessories) can portray different emotions (including confidence) to everyone (including you).

What Colours to wear?

The exact colour that looks great on you depends on your skin colouring.  But here is a rough guide to colour meanings:

• - Red: Danger, strength, power, love, boldness
• - Blue: Stability, trust, loyalty, confidence.
• - Deep blue: Expertise, depth, stability.
• - Black:  Mystery, power, evil.
• - White: Purity, innocence.
• - Green: Freshness, growth, safety, money.
• - Yellow: Joy, happiness, intellect.

This site has more information about each colour and its meaning.  

Most people already have that amazing outfit, or some variation of it.  If you don’t, I recommend you buy some.