I think the “fake it to make it” way of doing things is actually pretty effective. After all, I think most of us “fake” certain behaviors on a daily basis, even if we are not consciously aware of it. I mean, how often do we say things that we really don’t mean? How many times do we put on a happy face or wear a smile when deep down inside we are sad or depressed or angry? We are all actors on the stage of life as Shakespeare said. The only difference is the size of the various stages in which we perform on a daily basis, but we perform nonetheless.